Open When Letters
Pick the moments, and we write a starter letter for each. Edit every word, then print and seal them.
Quick answer
Open when letters are sealed letters labeled for specific moments, such as open when you miss me or open when you can't sleep. This free maker gives you a written starter letter for each moment, lets you edit it, and prints them ready to seal.
How it works
- 1Type their name and yours.
- 2Pick the moments and edit each letter.
- 3Print, fold and seal each one in its own envelope.
Open when letter ideas
Here are the 16 moments in the maker. Pick the ones that fit your partner's life:
- Open when you miss me
- Open when you feel sad
- Open when you can't sleep
- Open when you need a laugh
- Open when you feel stressed
- Open when we had a fight
- Open when you need a hug
- Open when it's your birthday
- Open when you want to give up
- Open when you're proud of yourself
- Open when it's our anniversary
- Open when you need to hear I love you
- Open when you can't stop worrying
- Open when you're sick
- Open when it's a rainy day
- Open when you doubt yourself
How to make them special
- Add a small extra in some envelopes: a tea bag, a photo, a stick of gum, a song on a note.
- Number them or color code the envelopes so they are easy to find.
- Keep one funny letter in the set. It will be opened more than you expect.
- Seal them with a sticker or wax seal. Opening is half the fun.
Pair them with a reasons why I love you jar for a long distance care package.
Questions parents ask
What are open when letters?
A set of sealed letters, each labeled for a moment: open when you miss me, open when you can't sleep, open when it's your birthday. Your partner opens the right one when that moment comes.
How many open when letters should I write?
Between 5 and 12 works for most people. Pick the moments your partner actually faces. Long distance couples often go up to 16 or more.
What should I write in an open when letter?
Write as if you are there. Say what you would say in person, add one memory or inside joke, and end with something they can do right now, like a song to play or a snack to grab. Our starter letters give you a draft for each moment.
Are the open when letters free?
Yes. Three letters are free in the Blush design. The Love Notes Kit unlocks all 16 letters, envelope labels and 9 more designs.
What do I put the letters in?
Any envelopes. Print the matching envelope labels from the kit, or write 'Open when...' on the front by hand. Tie the stack with ribbon or put them in a box.
Are open when letters good for long distance relationships?
Yes, they are one of the most loved long distance gifts. They also work before a deployment, a work trip, college, or for anyone going through a hard season.
Do I need an account or an app?
No. Everything works in your browser on a phone, tablet or computer. There is no account, no password and nothing to install.
Why do you ask for my email?
We ask once, when you download your first PDF. It lets us send you new free ideas for couples. Every email has an unsubscribe link, and we never sell your address.
What paper and printer do I need?
Any home printer and plain white paper work. The PDF is US Letter size and also fits A4 if you choose 'fit to page'. Card stock makes cards and labels feel special.
Is my information private?
Yes. Names, answers and letters are made inside your browser and are not stored on our servers. A couple comparison travels inside the link you share, so only people with the link can see it.
What is in the kits?
The Love Notes Kit unlocks all 10 designs, reasons as cards and jar slips, all 16 open when letters and envelope labels. The Love Language Kit adds a printable couple guide with ideas, a 30-day challenge and fridge cards. $4.99 each, or $8 for both.
Is a kit a subscription?
No. You pay once. There is nothing to cancel and no renewal. If it does not work for you, email us within 14 days for a refund.